it requires a certain way of looking, a distance. but this only works if a certain virtue or degree of morality is invoked while observing what is a private, individual urge for sexual fulfilment, which in this instance goes against normal boundaries of self-loving and has little to do with desire.
|the heightened interiority is an internal gaze which connects with other socially shared fantasies and validates such extreme actions. this creates a new space which combines a socially accepted emotional sensation with an individual or private rationalisation.|
so always seal the drywall.